Discussing a loved one’s final wishes is difficult, but important. Nobody wants to acknowledge that one day your relative will no longer be around, and this conversation can be uncomfortable and upsetting.
Here at Arthur Bell Funeral Directors, this month’s blog focuses on the best approach to discussing your loved one’s final wishes. Call us on 01924 822281.
Over 100 Years Experience
Nothing prepares you for the emotional turmoil of losing someone you love.
At Arthur Bell Funeral Directors we consider your family to be as precious as our own, for over 100 years we have striven to provide superior care and service to families in their time of need.
Why Is It Important?
If you don’t know someone’s final wishes, then they may not be carried out. Many choose a family member who will then act on their wishes at the time of need.
Being aware of your loved one’s final wishes enables you to work with a funeral director in advance to plan specifics. This ensures that their memory is honoured in the best way possible and reduces stress at a difficult time.
Consider The Best Approach
Finding the best approach to this discussion can be hard. You may feel uncomfortable bringing it up, so it is important to think about the best way to start the conversation.
As family, you know your relative better than anyone. Consider whether a direct or indirect approach is best. If they find the topic of death difficult to talk about, bringing in someone who is close to both you and your loved one may help.
Support and comfort are important when approaching such a sensitive subject.
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Ask For Details
Organising a funeral involves many decisions. Having a written record of preferences and last wishes helps make the arrangement easier. Some things to ask your relative could be:
- Funeral Preferences – Have they taken out a plan?
- Are there any important documents you should know about?
- Have any provisions been made for costs?
We work closely with Golden Charter Funeral Plans so your loved one receives a highly professional service.
Be Prepared
Talking about death can provoke an unexpected reaction. Discussing death is often rare and conversations may cause upset. It is important to remind your loved one why you are having this talk; you love them and want to give them the very best funeral.
Contact The Professionals
When organising a funeral, it is important you choose a professional and experienced funeral director. Arthur Bell Funeral Directors can help you with your loved one’s final wishes and deliver the perfect send off.
For more information, call us today on 01924 822281 or fill out our online contact form.
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Contact Arthur Bell (Wakefield) Ltd
Nothing prepares you for the emotional turmoil of losing someone you love.
At Arthur Bell Funeral Directors we consider your family to be as precious as our own, for over 100 years, we have striven to provide superior care and service to families in their time of need. Please feel free to call us directly for further details on 01924 822281.